Irresistible

I was reading this blog on Life at tj's place and there was on article where the fellow fall in love with his barber. I remember a similar scene in Friends where chandler in in love with joey's girl friend and that girl was too good looking. And there is a point where she gives him a hair cut. God a pretty woman touching your hair. That is irresistible.

towards main stream.

What do one do when he sees something wrong.
The option that i use normally is to think. To think whether i would do that mistake myself. If the answer is yes i wont do anything. First be correct then correct. I would think.
The most generally used option is to correct it.
I used to hate a friend of mine who practices the latter method but lately i am thinking of going for the second option.
Reasons:
1) i am never going to change anything.
2) somebody who doesnt change anything (be it for the good or for the bad) is never considered significant.
3)its better to make some good changes.

A conversations with a friend(f) who is a large scale hypocrite.

Conversation (1)
f: All these soaps that are shown on the tv should be banned.
me: What happened.
f: You know they are changing the way our women behave. They are wasting their time. They are not spending time talking to neighbours, talking to family etc.
me: So.
f: We should ban them.

Conversation (2)
me: Porn movies should be banned.
f: Why.
me: Just like you said soaps are affecting women porn has the worst effect on our whole society.
f: NO. Porn doesn't do any thing.Its just fine.
me: Fuck you. Porn is one factor that is bringing so much sleaze into our minds. Its one rawest form of cultural infiltration. ( that is one point that hits him, he hates all cultural infiltrations except those done by russia)
f: May be you are correct. But dont think of banning it. They will kill you. Or may be i will kill you.
me: I know.

Conversation (3)
me: You tell me that you like seeing voyeur pictures on net. Dont you feel any guilt about it.
f: No. I believe that teenagers love to expose their body. There is no problem with us viewing them. Its in our nature.
me: Then you didnt like those fashion shows in our college. Then you said that exposing is bad.
f: hey friend that is not that. It is blatant copying of foreign culture. Its bad.
me: Lost all control and laughed for the next 5 minutes.

You know hypocrisy lot of fun.

Another of my friendships is falling apart and the reason is too much closeness. And i feel a lot of doubts in such situations. This habit of mine helps me in keeping only a few friends despite many warm friendships. I would like to tell him now - the closer you get to me the farrer you are going to end up.
And then what i got is an inteview this week. I am wholly excited and what do i see on sunday express weekly forecast. They say that i wont get that opportunity. For the first time i got totally sad about being superstitional. Still some optimism remains.